OK, so I'm not sure if I am pregnant, I haven't taken a test yet, and we always used a condom but my period is pretty late and I know there's always a possibility of pregnancy with sex.

The guy who would be the father is my ex, we only dated for 2 weeks, and I'm really scared about telling him if I am pregnant. I am certain I would get an abortion, and I don't know how he would react to that. I think he is Catholic, so I'm scared he'll hate me and or try to stop me.

Has anyone ever gone through something like this? Should I tell him now I think I might be pregnant, or wait untill I take a test? I'm really nervous because if I have to get an abortion I want him to come with me, and I'm scared he'll hate me and I'll have to do it alone.

First of all, you need to get a test and find out for sure. Second, it is your body, and your choice. He cannot tell you whether to have an abortion or not- it is ultimately your decision. Good luck.

ok, thanks.

dont tell him untill you know for sure, that will just worry him if you arent, and just be like hey i need to tell you something and ask if you can meet alone to talk, dont beat around the bush just come out and say it and make sure he knows from the start that you want an abortion and he cannot change your mind but you would like his support and it would mean alot to you if he would come with you, if you have to use the excuse that the clinic requires you to have someone to drive you home and you dont want to tell your parents
GOOD LUCK

haha thanks for the reply, though luckily I got my period the night I made that post =)

omg i got mine this morning, the day after i made the appointment to get an abortion, and i even had a positive test, but i went to the doctor and the blood test said i wasnt

wow, well that was lucky!

I have a weird feeling I may have had a miscarriage though, because my period was kinda weird, and I got it right after I had gone moshing, and I've heard moshing can cause a miscarriage.

thats possible, if you did you will notice a greyish mass(nasty i know) pass in your blood

If you think you might have had a miscarriage you really should go to a doctor. If it's not complete stuff can still be inside you, which can get infected, which is really nasty.

hmm I don't think so, though it was darker than usual, and thicker.