How long did were you dating your b/f before you had sex with him? How old were you? Do you wish you waited longer?

I am almost 20 and have been dating my b/f for about a month. We are both virgins. I want to wait at least 4 months before I sleep with him and he's okay with that. I just wanted some perspective on how that compares with other girls' experiences. I know I'm already a late bloomer compared to the majority of girls today :p

Thank you!

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Edited 12/17/2008 2:22 pm ET by strwberrywine11

Okay well, I lost my virginity to the second boy I've ever been in love with.

I was 15, so was he.

[To anyone who thinks that's not possible because you "can't fall in love that young" or some #### like that, get over it, I'm sick of hearing it]
[Sorry for that little rant :D ]

Anyways, we had been dating for a month and a week, but I'd liked him for months before we started going out, and we'd been good friends for a long time beforehand as well. I don't regret it at all. It was the right time for me, and even though we're not together anymore I wouldn't change it. We're still best friends and I'm glad I lost it to someone I can trust.

good to know, thank you for sharing :)

A year- with my best friend. Hahah mannn that seems crazy to me now, but it wasnt even a thought in my mind. But we were always together etc and fell in love, and then I felt like I was ready to do it, and just extremely horny cause we had been fooling around for so long. I was 17, 3 months from 18. Im so glad I waited that long, and especially since he had to wait so long, I knew that he really loved and respected me.

But Idk how long I would wait now... probably a couple months would be good, cause the guy I'm involved with now is 22, and I'm 19, we're older and more mature but still taking it slow. Good luck!

I waited just under a year.  I dont regret it one bit.  I'm totally in love with him.

me && my bf had been dating for 2 yrs before i had sex w/ him

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he didnt pressure me or nothing I felt i was ready

it was a week before me 16th bday

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no maybe because of my age i think i should have waited longer but other then that no i think i picked the perfect person and were still together.

4yrs && 6 mon.

i waited a month :X

he took my virginity.

i'm 16

(i made a promise to myself i would wait until i was 16;

 but i was ready & wanting to have sex before then)

i do wish i waited longer; but i don't regret it (so far*)<3

I am 18 my boyfriend is 19 and we have been together for three years and have never had sex so yeah :) he is a mormon and I love him and its wonderful. But we have done other things...

We waited a year and four monthes before we had sex. I was 18 and he was 17. I do not regret it but I do wish I had waited untill I got on the pill. The stress that followed the next month and a half kinda took away how special it was.. But we don't regret it.

When I lost it I was 19 and we'd been dating almost 3 months. I wish I had waited longer.

Now I'm dating a new boy and we're not having sex for a while. We've been dating a month and a half and have barely done anything beyond making out (2 handjobs and he's fingered me once).