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  • August 21 2007
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Hey gURLS..!!

So I'm pretty sad right now because my boyfriend left this morning to go to Air Force basics.  He doesn't fly out until tomorrow, but this morning was the last time that I am going to see him until Christmas.  Because he has 6 weeks of basics and then he has like 15 weeks of job training.  He is all the way in San Antonio, Texas..and thats like SO far away from where I live!!  Its like a million hours!! Mann, this really sucks a big one.
Have any of you had a boyfriend go into the military?  Tell me how you dealt with it, because this is gonna be the hardest thing..EVER!! :[[

Thanks Ladies!

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So..this boy..^up here:

He is amazing. He treats me like a princess, even when I don't deserve it.  He is my hero. He is leaving for basic training for the Air Force and I won't see him until Christmas. :[ I hope that I can stay strong without him. I love my Matty!

 

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  • August 21 2007
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First off, congrats and the two of you should be proud!  Second, yea it's tough.  No real getting around that.  But there is mail (just ask him what NOT to send you 'cause in basic they'll mess with him if he gets stuff like food or whatnot, so ask him what he wants or w/e).  Sometimes they even get phone calls!  But stick with him and I know you won't regret it.  Military men are wonderful, especially if they were great to begin with!  Support him and send letters, you'll both grow accustomed to being apart for long periods of time and then being together for a period of time, and so on.  The longer he is in, the more predictable his assignments get but at first it'll be rocky.  I can't stress it enough, if you love him, support him and stick with him.  Don't just give up.  You'll both be crushed.  Dunno what else to tell ya, hope I at least helped a little...

 

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  • August 21 2007
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My boyfriends in the Navy. I haven't had to deal with him being away yet, so I'm kinda in the same boat as you. I mean i've gone through like a 10 day training and stuff but really nothing at all. I guess all I can say is if you love him, just try and be strong. Just don't think about the fact that he's gone, think about how happy you're going to be the day he comes home. That's what I think about. I think that people that are in military relationships are better off because you appreciate your time with that person more, and learn to love them more because of the time you spend apart. The time apart also determines if you are with the right person or not. If you really love them, you won't cheat on him while he's gone, and you'll be able to fight through it and wait til he comes home. Just think positive, even on the days where you will cry because he's gone, just try think about how much he makes you smile, how much joy he brings you, and that no matter how long he's gone, he's gonna come back to you and hold you in his arms once again. =]





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  • August 21 2007
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My bf is in the army and he was gone at basic this summer for 3 months and over a thousand miles away. I dealt with it by writing him letters when I finally got his adress and go to his parents house to get his weekly phone call. When they are gone it really shows you how much you truely love them and it makes you a stronger person in the long run as you can wait longer than other people and not cheat on them.

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  • August 21 2007
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My boyfriend joined the army just over a month ago but i havent seen him now for 7 weeks. He emailed me just before he went in but things arent the same because he wants me to move on with my life and not wait for him. Because he will be gone training for 3 years, i will probably see him every 3/5 months. He came online 2 weeks ago and he said he will be able to come online a few times a week but he hasnt. I have waited for him though. Its such a shock to me. He didnt want to go in but its a family thing passed on through generations. He said he cant send letters yet because they cut you off from everything so you dont get home sick. Its our one year anniversary in 2 days, and im collecting my gcse results aswell. Its going to be so hard without him :(.

I've never felt the same since hes gone, i miss him so much.

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  • August 21 2007
  • 6 of 921
Thank you very much, I don't think that I could ever give up on him.!! Hopefully he will get to call me and whatnot. We already talked about writing to eachother, and after he is done with 6 weeks of basic training then he gets his cell phone back so then we can talk again!! Thanks alot, though!

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      ^Just me!^          

^Matt^ :] 
So..this boy..^up here:

He is amazing. He treats me like a princess, even when I don't deserve it.  He is my hero. He is leaving for basic training for the Air Force and I won't see him until Christmas. :[ I hope that I can stay strong without him. I love my Matty!

 

Ya..I'm 15, He Is 18 And I Don't Really Care If You Think We Are Too Far Apart In Age, Because We Were Meant For Eachother. He Is My Simba And I Am His Nolla.Rawrrrr! :]

 

I Try To Live One Day At A Time Because I've Decided That Thats The Best Way To Do Things. I've Had Alot Of Things Happen In My Life And I've Come To Realize That Everything Happens For A Reason..Even Though There Are Still Things That I Don't Agree With.

I Try Not To Be Judgemental..But Sometimes It Doesn't Work And I Think That Everyone Judges People By When They First See Them, So Don't Deny It...But I'm Working On That Because Sometimes When I "Assume" Things About Other People...I'm Wrong.

Basically...I'm Really Easygoing And I'm Down For Anything! If You Have Any Questions About Me..Just Ask..Because I Won't Be Afraid To Tell Ya!

~Lost In This Moment~~Free&&Easy~~Loving Every Minute~~Rehab~

My Friends, My Habits, My Family...They Mean SO Much To Me..I Just Don't Think That It's Right!!

*Us*

 

Peace,

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  • August 21 2007
  • 7 of 921
Thank you. I could never EVER cheat on him though. I love him so much. Goshhh!! All I've done is cried since he left town yesterday and I'm really just trying to stay tough for him.and just for US. Thank you, again. And good luck with you and your boyfriend! Its hard, but we gotta stick it out for them. (thats how I think of it)

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      ^Just me!^          

^Matt^ :] 
So..this boy..^up here:

He is amazing. He treats me like a princess, even when I don't deserve it.  He is my hero. He is leaving for basic training for the Air Force and I won't see him until Christmas. :[ I hope that I can stay strong without him. I love my Matty!

 

Ya..I'm 15, He Is 18 And I Don't Really Care If You Think We Are Too Far Apart In Age, Because We Were Meant For Eachother. He Is My Simba And I Am His Nolla.Rawrrrr! :]

 

I Try To Live One Day At A Time Because I've Decided That Thats The Best Way To Do Things. I've Had Alot Of Things Happen In My Life And I've Come To Realize That Everything Happens For A Reason..Even Though There Are Still Things That I Don't Agree With.

I Try Not To Be Judgemental..But Sometimes It Doesn't Work And I Think That Everyone Judges People By When They First See Them, So Don't Deny It...But I'm Working On That Because Sometimes When I "Assume" Things About Other People...I'm Wrong.

Basically...I'm Really Easygoing And I'm Down For Anything! If You Have Any Questions About Me..Just Ask..Because I Won't Be Afraid To Tell Ya!

~Lost In This Moment~~Free&&Easy~~Loving Every Minute~~Rehab~

My Friends, My Habits, My Family...They Mean SO Much To Me..I Just Don't Think That It's Right!!

*Us*

 

Peace,

Taylin*Rae

:]

  • August 21 2007
  • 8 of 921
Wow, thats great that you have kept in touch with him! Thats what I'm planning on doing too. I see his parents around all the time so maybe I'll talk to them and see if Matt will be getting any phone calls soon!! So then I can talk to him too! Thank you and good luck with you and your boyfriend!

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      ^Just me!^          

^Matt^ :] 
So..this boy..^up here:

He is amazing. He treats me like a princess, even when I don't deserve it.  He is my hero. He is leaving for basic training for the Air Force and I won't see him until Christmas. :[ I hope that I can stay strong without him. I love my Matty!

 

Ya..I'm 15, He Is 18 And I Don't Really Care If You Think We Are Too Far Apart In Age, Because We Were Meant For Eachother. He Is My Simba And I Am His Nolla.Rawrrrr! :]

 

I Try To Live One Day At A Time Because I've Decided That Thats The Best Way To Do Things. I've Had Alot Of Things Happen In My Life And I've Come To Realize That Everything Happens For A Reason..Even Though There Are Still Things That I Don't Agree With.

I Try Not To Be Judgemental..But Sometimes It Doesn't Work And I Think That Everyone Judges People By When They First See Them, So Don't Deny It...But I'm Working On That Because Sometimes When I "Assume" Things About Other People...I'm Wrong.

Basically...I'm Really Easygoing And I'm Down For Anything! If You Have Any Questions About Me..Just Ask..Because I Won't Be Afraid To Tell Ya!

~Lost In This Moment~~Free&&Easy~~Loving Every Minute~~Rehab~

My Friends, My Habits, My Family...They Mean SO Much To Me..I Just Don't Think That It's Right!!

*Us*

 

Peace,

Taylin*Rae

:]

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  • August 21 2007
  • 9 of 921

Wow..I have only been away from Matt for like a day and a half and I'm already going crazy without him!! I can't even imagine how I will be in 7 WEEKS!! I'm deffinately gonna wait for him, because he is so worth it. He told me that I don't need to always worry about him and that I need to go out and have fun with other guys (but not like do anything with them) but I know that deep down he doesn't want me to be with anyone else, but thats good because I don't want anyone else! My boyfriend wanted to do this for HIM, not because his family wanted him to. I'm sorry to hear that those were the circumstances for your boyfriend. But when I talked to him last night he was staying at a hotel in the city that he is flying out from and he already wanted to come home because he knows that he is gonna be home sick. :[ Gahhh..this is gonna be HARD!
Congrats on your 2 year anniversary..but I'm really sorry that he couldn't be with you!! Thats gotta be hard!!
Thank you very much, though. And Stay Strong!

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      ^Just me!^          

^Matt^ :] 
So..this boy..^up here:

He is amazing. He treats me like a princess, even when I don't deserve it.  He is my hero. He is leaving for basic training for the Air Force and I won't see him until Christmas. :[ I hope that I can stay strong without him. I love my Matty!

 

Ya..I'm 15, He Is 18 And I Don't Really Care If You Think We Are Too Far Apart In Age, Because We Were Meant For Eachother. He Is My Simba And I Am His Nolla.Rawrrrr! :]

 

I Try To Live One Day At A Time Because I've Decided That Thats The Best Way To Do Things. I've Had Alot Of Things Happen In My Life And I've Come To Realize That Everything Happens For A Reason..Even Though There Are Still Things That I Don't Agree With.

I Try Not To Be Judgemental..But Sometimes It Doesn't Work And I Think That Everyone Judges People By When They First See Them, So Don't Deny It...But I'm Working On That Because Sometimes When I "Assume" Things About Other People...I'm Wrong.

Basically...I'm Really Easygoing And I'm Down For Anything! If You Have Any Questions About Me..Just Ask..Because I Won't Be Afraid To Tell Ya!

~Lost In This Moment~~Free&&Easy~~Loving Every Minute~~Rehab~

My Friends, My Habits, My Family...They Mean SO Much To Me..I Just Don't Think That It's Right!!

*Us*

 

Peace,

Taylin*Rae

:]

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  • August 21 2007
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